Breadcrumbs Blog

Handwritten stories & poems from my own self-discovery journey:
Feeling, Healing, Connecting

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The Mess That Comes With Dogs

There’s something to be said for owning a dog.

People first think of companionship, loyalty, man’s best friend. But they don’t realize the other ways owning a dog changes your life.

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A Woman’s Journey Fending Off Dementia

You should see the fear in her eyes when she talks about it. That prayer that she’s been saying for years – the other day she forgot how it started. “What were those first few words?”

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A Heavy Glimpse into an Ordinary Day of Nurses

She was breathing just an hour ago. We wrote her goals for the day on the whiteboard: Pain management, make as comfortable as possible.

We knew she was going through some post-surgery challenges, but we didn’t realize it’d be the last day she’d ever have goals on the board.

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Bicyclist Killed in a Carjacking Hit and Run

A 28-year old bicyclist was killed yesterday, right down the road near the neighborhood ice cream shop.

The guy who hit him was driving a car he’d just carjacked which had a two-year-old in the back seat. He was running from police, going at least 90 mph.

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Why Writers Love Blank Pages

There’s something special about that blank page. Something “perfect,” as Neil Gaiman explains.

It’s far less stressful than a full page. They don’t bring about those random thoughts in the shower or right before falling asleep of the one thing you forgot to say.

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Gatekeepers: How to Get Stuff Done

There can be a flood of great ideas: concepts that will change the world forever. But if those gatekeepers are strong and stubborn enough, it becomes difficult for those ideas to ever come to fruition. Unless, of course, the holders of the ideas are more committed and dedicated to their jailbreak than the gatekeepers holding them in.

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What if You Knew You Wouldn't Live Past 30?

Fatima Ali died yesterday, at age 29. She was diagnosed with a rare form of cancer right after appearing on Top Chef, which was looking to be a high point in her life. Only a few months after an initial treatment when things were looking up again, she got news that the chemo didn’t work, the cancer had metastasized, and she had a year to live.

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Wildfires and Keto Diets

2018 saw the most devastating and damaging California wildfires in history. It was crazy, and grimly ironic, that both the poor and the rich were left fleeing their homes as “Paradise” was hit.

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8 Years Clean- The Hibernating Beast

I’m celebrating 8 years of recovery today. Eight years since I hit the reset button on the trajectory of my life. And I couldn’t be more grateful. For several reasons.

Perhaps the most important reason being that not only am I alive today, but I also want to be

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Thank You From A Falling Bomb

It’s a letter from the falling bomb that destroyed a boy’s family home, forcing his family into a life as refugees in Syria. It’s really beautiful and I definitely suggest you give it a read.

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How Accepting Myself Helps Me Accept Others

When I can come to full terms with my own humanity—that I’m imperfect and just doing the best I can with what I’ve got—I can also extend that to others and accept their humanity. And with that, accept that sometimes, they may even cause me pain.

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Moonrise

There’s' something about catching the moon rising. When it’s big and bright and red. You feel like it’s a big sign out there, just for you. Saying, ‘I’m here, I’m here.’

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The Holiday Before the Holiday

There are ceremonial gatherings where we all get together and acknowledge how tight-knitted we are and how alike we think.

Those gatherings tend to be at the supermarket on the day before Christmas Eve.

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How Streaming is Redefining “Wasted Time"

My brother is a big gamer dude. He’s always liked video games, and these days he’s pretty serious about it. He streams online and has a community of other gamers that he streams with for up to 50 hours/week. My natural response is one that minimizes the meaning of the whole thing and tends to judge it as wasted time. But tonight I popped in on his page and saw that he was streaming live, so I poked around and listened for a bit.

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How We’re All Just Trying To Make It

A homeless guy approached me recently to ask for some money:“Do you have any change, miss? I’m just trying to make it.”

Man. We’re not that different, are we? I’m just trying to make it too.

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A Lesson From Luca

Luca is my dog. I think she’s here to teach me about love. She definitely sees in me something I don’t see in myself, and I know that because she loves me more than is even comfortable for me to fully take in.

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What it Means to Be Good Enough

Have you ever been talking to a friend about something you read or someone you heard about, but you can’t remember the person’s name? You have enough of a vague idea of how it sounded, and you might mumble through two or three variations before the other person gets what you were trying to say, and fills in the blank with the name, leading to a sigh of relief on your part!

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